Soft Edges
by Fleta R. Robinson
This morning I read a fragment from an article about the artist, Thomas Kinkade, known as Painter of Light. "I strive for three visual aspects in my work," he stated, "soft edges, a warm pallette, and an overall sense of light."
My reading stopped. That comment triggered ideas and insights about something else-- audible aspects. Mr. Kinkade was referring to what we take in visually. But what about how we are heard? Could we/should we strive for "soft edges" in this area of communication? I believe so.
Most people seem to appreciate a "soft edge" when informed or corrected by another. They can hear the admonition given rather than be caught up, and distracted by, the pain caused by a harsh or sharp manner.
If a little one is wandering close to a cliff edge, a swift running river or other dangers should we softly say, "Now, dear, be careful"? No, there are times to use a swift loud NO or STOP! God gave us the ability to raise the decibels when needed.
Are we to be so "soft edged" we compromise God-given convictions or the Gospel of Jesus Christ? No way!
Do I sometimes harm a friendship by swinging a "sharp blade" myself when a soft edged comment or correction would be a more effective tool? Quite likely I do. (I'm so sorry, Lord.)
A soft answer turns away wrath but harsh words stir up anger. Proverbs 15:1 (NKJV)